See RFC 8446: 4.2.11
With TLS 1.3 PSK callback, If the returned cipher suite isn't available,
use the hash from the cipher suite and choose from available list.
Require exact match when: WOLFSSL_TLS13_PSK_NO_MATCH_HASH
Alternative callback for client added that is passed a cipher suite
string. Called for each cipher suite that is to be negotiated.
If cipher suite to be used with PSK then return client identity.
Returning an identity based on cipher suite hash will result in
only one PSK extension being added per hash.