Add ref/unref calls at the following places:
- places where memory regions are stashed by a listener and
used outside the BQL (including in Xen or KVM).
- memory_region_find callsites
- creation of aliases and containers (only the aliased/contained
region gets a reference to avoid loops)
- around calls to del_subregion/add_subregion, where the region
could disappear after the first call
Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>