Takes the same approach as when adding a new address - we no longer
announce the new lladdr right away but we announce the result.
This will either be RTM_ADD or RTM_MISS.
RTM_DELETE is only sent if we have a lladdr assigned OR gc'ed.
This results in less messages via route(4) and tells us when a new
lladdr has been added (RTM_ADD), changed (RTM_CHANGE), deleted (RTM_DELETED)
or has failed to been resolved (RTM_MISS). The latter case can be
interpreted as unreachable.
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