support removal and addition of i/o file descriptors on the fly.
* detect closed file descriptors
* automatically free waiters of a dead file descriptor
* give the file server the possibility to specify a callback which
notifies of a dead file descriptor
* move loop function to be a property of the mainloop instead of
framebuf (doesn't change effective behaviour)
* add the possibility to configure a timespec parameter which
attempts to call the loop function periodically
* move the event loop functions from the puffs_framebuf namespace
to puffs_framev to differential between pure memory management
functions
